You are going to hurt someone just because of your own selfish need for attention / company. (thecoupleconnection.net)
Many young men date older women for selfish needs, they want financial stability, and no strings attached type of relationship and so on. (seekingcougar.com)
It doesn't matter what the ultimate goal of these groups individually are just as long as each group gets its own selfish needs met. (religion.blogs.cnn.com)