If it reaches 10 seconds, then break for the day, however inconvenient that might be, or at least separate the parties in different rooms for divorce mediation or parenting consulting. (resolveconflictnow.net)
For this reason, it is best if separating parties pay off joint debt or transfer it to separately owned accounts. (familylawhelp.ca)
Normally the men and the women gave separate parties like this. (redeeminggod.com)