The phrase "similar ordeal" means facing a situation that is very much like or comparable to a difficult experience or struggle that someone else has already been through. Full definition
I know this is late, but just in case any other struggling mom's find this... I went through a very similar ordeal. (rookiemoms.com)
The HIV dating site encourages users to share their thoughts and experiences without shame, bonding with others who have gone through similar ordeals. (datingadvice.com)
There is an excellent parallel between Jasmine and Ginger, who are facing similar ordeals, yet coping differently. (thepopcornjunkie.com)