In a collaborative law divorce the parties stay out of the courthouse and focus on solving problems through business like negotiations versus assessing blame for problems in adversarial litigation. (collaborativepracticemarin.org)
Once things get bad enough the electorate will view the unions with hostility and blame them for the problems caused by strikes and other disruptions instead of the government. (politics.stackexchange.com)
Many victims of sexual abuse blame themselves for these problems. (glennlawfirm.com)