I usually don't initiate contact with men who don't post a photo. (datinggoddess.com)
Free members can't initiate contact with other users, but they can participate in the chat room action and have limited instant message conversations. (top10bestdatingsites.com)
However, she was the one who initiated contact with me, which automatically pushed me past the worry of her not being interested. (datingadviceguy.com)