It makes my brain hurt when people say things like that. (skepticalob.com)
This can be done by saying things like «You're so thoughtful to clean the kitchen,» which highlights their positive qualities and things you admire about them. (divorcemag.com)
I see on this thread people who say things like our women are all going to be churning butter and wearing long sleeves, etc... (religion.blogs.cnn.com)