Whatever else happens around the football, there's always the game to reassure you of the fundamental unmanageability of this most important, least important thing. (sbnation.com)
The behavior, besides the immediate sexual gratification, leaves the person feeling guilty and shameful, and compounds itself with consequences and unmanageability in the person's life. (novusmindfullife.com)
Accept powerlessness over and unmanageability of addiction. (theravive.com)