In Dr. Gottman's New York Times bestselling book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, he points out that 69 % of conflicts in relationships are about unresolvable issues. (gottman.com)
Gottman states that couples can live with unresolvable conflicts about perpetual issues in their relationship if the issues are not deal breakers. (huffingtonpost.com)
Psychologist Dan Wile once said that «when choosing a long - term partner, you will inevitably be choosing a particular set of unresolvable problems.» (gottman.com)