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Each session focuses on the steps and stages, from assessment, working with cycles, effectively deepening emotion and facilitating the processes of withdrawer re-engagement and pursuer softening.

We will be viewing a portion of Withdrawer Reengagement Disc 1: Couple 1 - Session 8 of EFT with John and Julia.

Day 2 will review steps 5 - 7, first with withdrawer re-engagement and then pursuer softening, along with the EFT skills involved.

Kathryn has a special passion for Stage 2 work, having completed her PHD on withdrawer reengagement.

Session 3 - emphasizes working with primary emotion, teaches associated skills and focuses on withdrawer re-engagement.

We'll look at some effective strategies for working with emotional withdrawers in Stage One and balancing that work with the pursuer's needs.

When we see couples, we create a space for Withdrawers to help them understand their feelings just before they decide to «exit» the moment emotionally.

Often the anxiety is about the relationship being at risk: withdrawers often shut down because they fear that conflict will end the relationship.

Well, sometimes, the person who is an emotional withdrawer can actually pursue for connection via sex!

The Leaning in to and Working Effectively with Withdrawers workshop is almost full.

You will see Marlene working with the engaged withdrawer to ensure that he is fully engaged before proceeding to Pursuer Softening.

Once again, we'll be working on steps 5, 6 & 7 as we address the heightening and expanding of emotion to facilitate the vivid enactments that culminate in the Pursuer's «softening reach» and the re-engaged Withdrawer's accepting and supportive response.

Discover and explore our own «inner withdrawer» to better sense, feel, experience and learn to linger in this place with couples in our office.

The move comes after exam boards announced they would withdrawer several courses from 2017.

Withdrawers respond defensively, backing up further, further fueling the pursuer's sense of aloneness and desperation.

gives us insight into «William and Mary» as we witness Leanne working compassionately and directively to deepen emotional experience with a quiet male withdrawer and anxious female pursuer.

Remember, we all have a harsh, anxious pursuer inside, a shut down, turn away protective withdrawer and an inner direct route, securely attached person inside waiting to emerge.

There are those moments where she does commit, like in pursuer softenings or withdrawer re-engagment when we do prompt the reach.

We'll see a female withdrawer wrestle with shame that pulls her away from her partner.

Module One: February 10 - 11, 2017 Steps 1 - 3 Assessment Module Two: April 21 — 22, 2017 Steps 3 - 4 De-Escalation Module Three: June 30 - July 1, 2017 Steps 5 - 7 Withdrawer ReEngagement Module Four: September 15 - 16, 2017 Steps 5 - 7 Blamer Softening

In the moment, we see him move beyond the shame / blame dance common to so many hostile / defensive withdrawers.

One question: In your post, it sounds as if every persuer / withdrawer develops that role because of the consistency of their relationship with their parents.

We know that many Withdrawers feel their own vulnerable feelings too!

Wednesday Going Deeper — Helping Withdrawers & Pursuers Reach Out to Each Other through Enactments Couples often only see the reactive behavior of the other (often angry outbursts or withdrawals) resulting in more distress and isolation, along with constricted beliefs about each other and sometimes themselves.

There are other significant fears Withdrawers have, though they may not share them.

When caught in this spin cycle it can seem like there is very little that either the anxious Pursuer or the avoidant Withdrawer can do to solve this toxic dance.

At times Withdrawers attempt to engage.

Each weekend will also address one or two special topics within EFT, such as managing the crisis of affair discovery; working with high conflict couples; the transition from stage 1 to stage 2; trauma; working with polyamory and non-monogamy; addressing issues of safety that arise from privilege and oppression; and working with rigid withdrawers.

There may be a pattern playing out in your relationship called the Pursuer and Withdrawer pattern.

Then we choreograph the deep Stage 2 work of withdrawers engaging fully emotionally, sharing their own attachment fears, longings and needs.

We will be viewing a portion of: Risking, Reaching and Responding - Transforming Relationships Stage 2 - Withdrawer Reengagement with Gail Palmer

At that point, withdrawers often pick up the slack with their own demands, prompting their partners - the previous demanders - to disengage.

Day 2 will review steps 5 - 7, first with withdrawer re-engagement and then pursuersoftening, along with the EFT skills involved.

In the recent posts on Withdrawers and Pursuers, you can read more about how you can change your thinking about your partner, and, therefore, exercise your brain cells.

I'll often flag this for them in stage two by asking, for example, a re-engaged withdrawer to remind the pursuing partner what it meant and how it felt to hear the more vulnerable primary emotions.

This workshop will start with an exploration of our own «inner withdrawer» and a deep reframing of the withdrawal response in humans, in the negative dance, and in all relationships.

We've written in the past about how almost every relationship has one person who is an emotional pursuer, and one who is more of an emotional withdrawer.

Apart maybe from the handful of cranky intellectuals such as Henry David Thoreau featured in an odd chapter on individual «withdrawers,» there are no anarchists in Wills's cast of characters.

To say that Yahweh will punish those who breach shalom, to say that the Giver of shalom is also the Withdrawer of shalom, to speak of «the sword of the LORD,» is to reiterate the ancient faith of Israel that Yahweh is a warrior.

Yet they know that Yahweh can also be the Withdrawer of shalom.

Here, a person can be both the grantor (contributor) to the IRA, and the beneficiary (a withdrawer after retirement).

Following her presentation in Brisbane as part of ACEFT's Assembly on Affect and Attachment, Kathryn comes to Melbourne to present her indepth knowledge and experience of the Withdrawer Reengagement and Blamer Softening processes.

We will be viewing a portion of: «Withdrawer Re-Engagement,» live session in Netherlands with Yolanda von Hockauf.

We watched a portion of: «Withdrawer Re-Engagement», live session in Netherlands with Yolanda von Hockauf.

Understanding the Difference between Pursuers and Withdrawers with Dr. Zoya Simakhodskaya, EFT Trainer with the NY Center for EFT

The demander sees the «issue» as the withdrawer's laziness, selfishness, obstinacy, or sabotage.

The withdrawer sees the «issue» as the demander's need to control and lack of empathy.

The blamer is often trying to get a reaction from the withdrawer or placater, because any kind of reaction (even a negative one) is evidence that they are still emotionally involved.