"Respectful way" means treating someone with kindness, politeness, and consideration, and avoiding actions that may hurt or offend them. Full definition
A key to successful family meetings is this: Everyone has a right to have and express their own viewpoint, but it is important to do so in respectful ways. (naeyc.org)
They realized that punishment does not impact long term behavior, and that having a mutual respectful way of solving problems can be more effective. (positivedisciplinect.org)
It was typically a woman that was the office leader or «office mom» which is a term I use in the most respectful way possible. (mquinn.com)